Who writes Becoming Better Not Bitter?

Becoming Better Not Bitter is written by Stacey Soleil and Mark Allen Scott, Tulsa Remote alumni, Zeeco Oktoberfest hosts, and local lifestyle bloggers who share Tulsa events, day trips, hidden gems, and personal stories of love, resilience, and community.

What is America’s Favorite Couple contest?

America’s Favorite Couple is a nationwide competition that celebrates real-life love stories. Contestants advance through public voting, with proceeds from paid votes benefiting nonprofit causes. Winners receive a cash prize and national media features.

Why are Stacey and Mark competing in America’s Favorite Couple?

We entered to raise awareness and support for building an Accessory Dwelling Unit (ADU) for Stacey’s children’s father, who has CADASIL, a rare genetic dementia. The ADU will allow care with dignity and close family connection.

CADASIL is a rare, inherited condition that affects blood vessels in the brain and can lead to strokes, dementia, and other neurological symptoms. You can follow Jerry’s journey on Instagram at @CADASILCoach.

An Accessory Dwelling Unit is a small, independent home on the same lot as a primary residence. ADUs support multigenerational living, caregiving, or guest housing. Ours will support a loved one with CADASIL.

How can I vote for Stacey and Mark in America’s Favorite Couple?

You can cast one free vote per day at the official contest page. Additional votes can be purchased, with proceeds benefiting charity.

How can I follow Stacey and Mark’s adventures?

Visit BecomingBetterNotBitter.com or follow @TulsaTips on Instagram for Tulsa events, travel tips, and updates.

What topics does Becoming Better Not Bitter cover?

Tulsa events, Oklahoma day trips, lifestyle tips, personal growth, travel, blended families, caregiving, and love stories.

How can I contact you for press or collaboration?

Use the Contact page on BecomingBetterNotBitter.com for media inquiries, brand collaborations, or speaking requests.

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