FAQ’s – Becoming Better Not Bitter [aka - Tulsa Tips]

1. Who writes Becoming Better Not Bitter?
Becoming Better Not Bitter is written by Stacey Soleil and Mark Allen Scott — Tulsa Remote alumni, Zeeco Oktoberfest hosts, and local lifestyle bloggers who share Tulsa events, day trips, hidden gems, and personal stories of love, resilience, and community.

2. What is America’s Favorite Couple contest?
America’s Favorite Couple is a nationwide competition that celebrates real-life love stories. Contestants advance through public voting, with proceeds from paid votes benefiting nonprofit causes. Winners receive a cash prize and national media features.

3. Why are Stacey and Mark competing in America’s Favorite Couple?
We entered the contest to raise awareness and support for building an Accessory Dwelling Unit (ADU) for Stacey’s children’s father, who has CADASIL, a rare genetic dementia. This space will allow us to provide care, dignity, and family connection.

4. What is CADASIL?
CADASIL (Cerebral Autosomal Dominant Arteriopathy with Subcortical Infarcts and Leukoencephalopathy) is a rare, inherited condition that affects blood vessels in the brain, often leading to strokes, dementia, and other neurological symptoms. You can learn more about CADASIL and follow Jerry’s journey on Instagram at @CADASILCoach.

5. What is an ADU?
An Accessory Dwelling Unit (ADU) is a small, independent housing unit built on the same property as a main residence. ADUs are often used for multigenerational living, caregiving arrangements, or as a guest home. In our case, it will be used to care for a loved one with CADASIL.

6. How can I vote for Stacey and Mark in America’s Favorite Couple?
You can cast one free vote per day at America’s Favorite Couple contest page. Additional votes can be purchased, with proceeds benefiting charity.

7. How can I follow Stacey and Mark’s adventures?
Visit our blog at BecomingBetterNotBitter.com or follow us on Instagram at @TulsaTips for Tulsa events, travel tips, and personal updates.

8. What topics does Becoming Better Not Bitter cover?
We write about Tulsa events, day trips in Oklahoma and surrounding states, lifestyle tips, personal growth, travel, blended families, caregiving, and love stories that inspire.

9. How can I contact you for press or collaboration?
You can reach us via our Contact Page for media inquiries, brand collaborations, or speaking requests.