Who writes Becoming Better Not Bitter?

Becoming Better Not Bitter is written by Stacey Soleil and Mark Allen Scott, Tulsa Remote alumni, Zeeco Oktoberfest hosts, and local lifestyle bloggers who share Tulsa events, day trips, hidden gems, and personal stories of love, resilience, and community.

What is America’s Favorite Couple contest?

America’s Favorite Couple is a nationwide competition that celebrates real-life love stories. Contestants advance through public voting, with proceeds from paid votes benefiting nonprofit causes. Winners receive a cash prize and national media features.

Why are Stacey and Mark competing in America’s Favorite Couple?

We entered to raise awareness and support for building an Accessory Dwelling Unit (ADU) for Stacey’s children’s father, who has CADASIL, a rare genetic dementia. The ADU will allow care with dignity and close family connection.

CADASIL is a rare, inherited condition that affects blood vessels in the brain and can lead to strokes, dementia, and other neurological symptoms. You can follow Jerry’s journey on Instagram at @CADASILCoach.

An Accessory Dwelling Unit is a small, independent home on the same lot as a primary residence. ADUs support multigenerational living, caregiving, or guest housing. Ours will support a loved one with CADASIL.

How can I vote for Stacey and Mark in America’s Favorite Couple?

You can cast one free vote per day at the official contest page. Additional votes can be purchased, with proceeds benefiting charity.

How can I follow Stacey and Mark’s adventures?

Visit BecomingBetterNotBitter.com or follow @TulsaTips on Instagram for Tulsa events, travel tips, and updates.

What topics does Becoming Better Not Bitter cover?

Tulsa events, Oklahoma day trips, lifestyle tips, personal growth, travel, blended families, caregiving, and love stories.

How can I contact you for press or collaboration?

Use the Contact page on BecomingBetterNotBitter.com for media inquiries, brand collaborations, or speaking requests.

Local Tulsa Couple Named Finalists in America’s Favorite Couple Contest — Here’s Their Powerful Story

Aug 12

Written By Stacey Soleil

We’re beyond proud to share that we’ve been named quarter-finalists in the America’s Favorite Couple contest — Representing the TOP 1% of entrants & one of only 20 couples across the country advancing past thousands of entries.
As Tulsa Remote alumni and Zeeco Oktoberfest hosts, we’re bringing Tulsa’s heart to a national stage.

**VOTE for Doodle & Soleil (Our Nicknames!) - We’re HONORED to be representing Tulsa!**

America’s Favorite Couple: The Contest at a Glance

Hosted by Jeff and Emilie Goldblum and powered by Colossal, America’s Favorite Couple is more than a contest — it’s a platform for storytelling. Finalists are narrowed by public votes: one free vote every 24 hours, more with donations that benefit Regional Food Banks and Oceana, an ocean conservation nonprofit. The winner receives $20,000 and a featured spread in Variety magazine.

Our Why: Care, Community, and CADASIL

This contest is deeply personal for us. We entered not for fame, but to support a mission: building an Accessory Dwelling Unit (ADU) for my children’s father, Jerry — who is living with CADASIL, a rare inherited dementia. This ADU will allow him to be cared for with dignity, right here at home and avoid assisted living or memory care.

Standing Out in the Crowd

Other contestants may have already received attention, but none have advanced as far as we have, and none come with the same Tulsa-rooted connection and reach. We’ve never been featured in the press — literally every vote that carried us here came from people moved by our story & we’re beyond honored for all of the organic support we’ve received so far!

How Voting Works

According to the official contest rules:

Voting progresses via rounds — Top 20 → 15 → 10 → 5 → Group Finals → Quarterfinals → Semifinals → Finals. (Look how far we’ve come!)
Everyone gets one free vote every 24 hours.
Additional votes can be purchased with donations, benefiting the national charities.

Tulsa Roots, Digital Reach

We’re not just contestants — we’re creators and connectors. Through our lifestyle blog, BecomingBetterNotBitter.com, and our Instagram @TulsaTips, we spotlight Tulsa events, small businesses, and local day trips — cultivating a loyal audience. As hosts of Zeeco Oktoberfest and part of Tulsa Remote’s Class of 2022, we embody local pride and community spirit.

Join Our Journey — How You Can Help

Vote for us daily for free on the America’s Favorite Couple site.
Share our story with friends, family, or Tulsa lovers nationwide.
Follow Jerry’s journey on Instagram at @CADASILCoach.

This story is about love, caregiving, and community. Help us shine a positive spotlight on Tulsa and raise awareness for CADASIL and multigenerational caregiving.

Share the Love

If you’re moved by our story, please leave a comment, share this post, and follow along on social for the final stretch of this journey. Thank you — we’re honored to be in this with you.